Tuesday, April 24, 2007

Aging

Annals of Medicine

The Way We Age Now

Medicine has increased the ranks of the elderly. Can it make old age any easier?

by Atul Gawande April 30, 2007

Photograph by Richard Avedon. Jacob Israel Avedon, Sarasota, Florida, December 19, 1972. This portrait is part of a series that the photographer made to record his father’s last years.

Photograph by Richard Avedon. Jacob Israel Avedon, Sarasota, Florida, December 19, 1972. This portrait is part of a series that the photographer made to record his father’s last years.

The hardest substance in the human body is the white enamel of the teeth. With age, it wears away nonetheless, allowing the softer, darker layers underneath to show through. Meanwhile, the blood supply to the pulp and the roots of the teeth atrophies, and the flow of saliva diminishes; the gums tend to become inflamed and pull away from the teeth, exposing the base, making them unstable and elongating their appearance, especially the lower ones. Experts say they can gauge a person’s age to within five years from the examination of a single tooth—if the person has any teeth left to examine.

Scrupulous dental care can help avert tooth loss, but growing old gets in the way. Arthritis, tremors, and small strokes, for example, make it difficult to brush and floss, and, because nerves become less sensitive with age, people may not realize that they have cavity and gum problems until it’s too late. In the course of a normal lifetime, the muscles of the jaw lose about forty per cent of their mass and the bones of the mandible lose about twenty per cent, becoming porous and weak. The ability to chew declines, and people shift to softer foods, which are generally higher in fermentable carbohydrates and more likely to cause cavities. By the age of sixty, Americans have lost, on average, a third of their teeth. After eighty-five, almost forty per cent have no teeth at all.

Even as our bones and teeth soften, the rest of our body hardens. Blood vessels, joints, the muscle and valves of the heart, and even the lungs pick up substantial deposits of calcium and turn stiff. Under a microscope, the vessels and soft tissues display the same form of calcium that you find in bone. When you reach inside an elderly patient during surgery, the aorta and other major vessels often feel crunchy under your fingers. A recent study has found that loss of bone density may be an even better predictor of death from atherosclerotic disease than cholesterol levels. As we age, it’s as if the calcium flows out of our skeletons and into our tissues.

To maintain the same volume of blood flow through narrowed and stiffened blood vessels, the heart has to generate increased pressure. As a result, more than half of us develop hypertension by the age of sixty-five. The heart becomes thicker-walled from having to pump against the pressure, and less able to respond to the demands of exertion. The peak output of the heart decreases steadily from the age of thirty. People become gradually less able to run as far or as fast as they used to, or to climb a flight of stairs without becoming short of breath.

Why we age is the subject of vigorous debate. The classical view is that aging happens because of random wear and tear. A newer view holds that aging is more orderly and genetically driven. Proponents of this view point out that animals of similar species and exposure to wear and tear have markedly different life spans. The Canada goose has a longevity of 23.5 years; the emperor goose only 6.3 years. Perhaps animals are like plants, with lives that are, to a large extent, internally governed. Certain species of bamboo, for instance, form a dense stand that grows and flourishes for a hundred years, flowers all at once, and then dies.

The idea that living things shut down and not just wear down has received substantial support in the past decade. Researchers working with the now famous worm C. elegans (two of the last five Nobel Prizes in medicine went to scientists doing work on the little nematode) were able to produce worms that live more than twice as long and age more slowly by altering a single gene. Scientists have since come up with single-gene alterations that increase the life spans of Drosophila fruit flies, mice, and yeast.

These findings notwithstanding, scientists do not believe that our life spans are actually programmed into us. After all, for most of our hundred-thousand-year existence—all but the past couple of hundred years—the average life span of human beings has been thirty years or less. (Research suggests that subjects of the Roman Empire had an average life expectancy of twenty-eight years.) Today, the average life span in developed countries is almost eighty years. If human life spans depend on our genetics, then medicine has got the upper hand. We are, in a way, freaks living well beyond our appointed time. So when we study aging what we are trying to understand is not so much a natural process as an unnatural one. Inheritance has surprisingly little influence on longevity. James Vaupel, of the Max Planck Institute for Demographic Research, in Rostock, Germany, notes that only six per cent of how long you’ll live, compared with the average, is explained by your parents’ longevity; by contrast, up to ninety per cent of how tall you are, compared with the average, is explained by your parents’ height. Even genetically identical twins vary widely in life span: the typical gap is more than fifteen years.

If our genes explain less than we imagined, the wear-and-tear model may explain more than we knew. Leonid Gavrilov, a researcher at the University of Chicago, argues that human beings fail the way all complex systems fail: randomly and gradually. As engineers have long recognized, many simple devices do not age. They function reliably until a critical component fails, and the whole thing dies instantly. A windup toy works smoothly until a gear rusts or a spring breaks, and then it doesn’t work at all. But complex systems—power plants, say—have to survive and function despite having thousands of critical components. Engineers therefore design these machines with multiple layers of redundancy: with backup systems, and backup systems for the backup systems. The backups may not be as efficient as the first-line components, but they allow the machine to keep going even as damage accumulates. Gavrilov argues that, within the parameters established by our genes, that’s exactly how human beings appear to work. We have an extra kidney, an extra lung, an extra gonad, extra teeth. The DNA in our cells is frequently damaged under routine conditions, but our cells have a number of DNA repair systems. If a key gene is permanently damaged, there are usually extra copies of the gene nearby. And, if the entire cell dies, other cells can fill in.

Nonetheless, as the defects in a complex system increase, the time comes when just one more defect is enough to impair the whole, resulting in the condition known as frailty. It happens to power plants, cars, and large organizations. And it happens to us: eventually, one too many joints are damaged, one too many arteries calcify. There are no more backups. We wear down until we can’t wear down anymore.

It happens in a bewildering array of ways. Hair grows gray, for instance, simply because we run out of the pigment cells that give hair its color. The natural life cycle of the scalp’s pigment cells is just a few years. We rely on stem cells under the surface to migrate in and replace them. Gradually, however, the stem-cell reservoir is used up. By the age of fifty, as a result, half of the average person’s hairs have gone gray.

Inside skin cells, the mechanisms that clear out waste products slowly break down and the muck coalesces into a clot of gooey yellow-brown pigment known as lipofuscin. These are the age spots we see in skin. When lipofuscin accumulates in sweat glands, the sweat glands cannot function, which helps explain why we become so susceptible to heat stroke and heat exhaustion in old age.

The eyes go for different reasons. The lens is made of crystallin proteins that are tremendously durable, but they change chemically in ways that diminish their elasticity over time—hence the farsightedness that most people develop beginning in their fourth decade. The process also gradually yellows the lens. Even without cataracts (the whitish clouding of the lens caused by excessive ultraviolet exposure, high cholesterol, diabetes, cigarette smoking, and other unhelpful conditions), the amount of light reaching the retina of a healthy sixty-year-old is one-third that of a twenty-year-old.

I spoke to Felix Silverstone, who for twenty-four years was the senior geriatrician at the Parker Jewish Institute, in New York, and has published more than a hundred studies on aging. There is, he said, “no single, common cellular mechanism to the aging process.” Our bodies accumulate lipofuscin and oxygen free-radical damage and random DNA mutations and numerous other microcellular problems. The process is gradual and unrelenting. “We just fall apart,” he said.

This is not an appealing prospect, and people naturally prefer to avoid the subject of their decrepitude. There have been dozens of best-selling books on aging, but they tend to have titles like “Younger Next Year,” “The Fountain of Age,” “Ageless,” “The Sexy Years.” Still, there are costs to averting our eyes from the realities. For one thing, we put off changes that we need to make as a society. For another, we deprive ourselves of opportunities to change the individual experience of aging for the better.

For nearly all of human existence, people died young. Life expectancy improved as we overcame early death—in particular, deaths from childbirth, infection, and traumatic injury. By the nineteen-seventies, just four out of every hundred people born in industrialized countries died before the age of thirty. It was an extraordinary achievement, but one that seemed to leave little room for further gain; even eliminating deaths before thirty would not raise over-all life expectancy significantly. Efforts shifted, therefore, to reducing deaths during middle and old age, and, in the decades since, the average life span has continued upward. Improvements in the treatment and prevention of heart disease, respiratory illness, stroke, cancer, and the like mean that the average sixty-five-year-old can expect to live another nineteen years—almost four years longer than was the case in 1970. (By contrast, from the nineteenth century to 1970, sixty-five-year-olds gained just three years of life expectancy.)

The result has been called the “rectangularization” of survival. Throughout most of human history, a society’s population formed a sort of pyramid: young children represented the largest portion—the base—and each successively older cohort represented a smaller and smaller group. In 1950, children under the age of five were eleven per cent of the U.S. population, adults aged forty-five to forty-nine were six per cent, and those over eighty were one per cent. Today, we have as many fifty-year-olds as five-year-olds. In thirty years, there will be as many people over eighty as there are under five.

Americans haven’t come to grips with the new demography. We cling to the notion of retirement at sixty-five—a reasonable notion when those over sixty-five were a tiny percentage of the population, but completely untenable as they approach twenty per cent. People are putting aside less in savings for old age now than they have in any decade since the Great Depression. More than half of the very old now live without a spouse, and we have fewer children than ever before—yet we give virtually no thought to how we will live out our later years alone.

Equally worrying, and far less recognized, medicine has been slow to confront the very changes that it has been responsible for—or to apply the knowledge we already have about how to make old age better. Despite a rapidly growing elderly population, the number of certified geriatricians fell by a third between 1998 and 2004. Applications to training programs in adult primary-care medicine are plummeting, while fields like plastic surgery and radiology receive applications in record numbers. Partly, this has to do with money—incomes in geriatrics and adult primary care are among the lowest in medicine. And partly, whether we admit it or not, most doctors don’t like taking care of the elderly.

“Mainstream doctors are turned off by geriatrics, and that’s because they do not have the faculties to cope with the Old Crock,” Felix Silverstone, the geriatrician, explained to me. “The Old Crock is deaf. The Old Crock has poor vision. The Old Crock’s memory might be somewhat impaired. With the Old Crock, you have to slow down, because he asks you to repeat what you are saying or asking. And the Old Crock doesn’t just have a chief complaint—the Old Crock has fifteen chief complaints. How in the world are you going to cope with all of them? You’re overwhelmed. Besides, he’s had a number of these things for fifty years or so. You’re not going to cure something he’s had for fifty years. He has high blood pressure. He has diabetes. He has arthritis. There’s nothing glamorous about taking care of any of those things.”

There is, however, a skill to it, a developed body of professional expertise. And until I visited my hospital’s geriatrics clinic and saw the work that geriatricians do, I did not fully grasp the nature of that expertise, or how important it could be for all of us.

The geriatrics clinic—or, as my hospital calls it, the Center for Older Adult Health—is only one floor below my surgery clinic. I pass by it almost every day, and I can’t remember ever giving it a moment’s thought. One morning, however, I wandered downstairs and, with the permission of the patients, sat in on a few visits with Juergen Bludau, the chief geriatrician.

“What brings you here today?” the doctor asked Jean Gavrilles, his first patient of the morning. She was eighty-five years old, with short, frizzy white hair, oval glasses, a lavender knit shirt, and a sweet, ready smile. Small but sturdy in appearance, she had come in walking steadily, her purse and coat clutched under one arm, her daughter trailing behind her, no support required beyond her mauve orthopedic shoes. She said that her internist had recommended that she come.

About anything in particular? the doctor asked.

The answer, it seemed, was yes and no. The first thing she mentioned was a lower-back pain that she’d had for months, which shot down her leg and sometimes made it difficult to get out of bed or up from a chair. She also had bad arthritis, and she showed us her fingers, which were swollen at the knuckles and bent out to the sides with what’s called a swan-neck deformity. She’d had both knees replaced a decade earlier. She had high blood pressure “from stress,” she said, and handed him her list of medications. She had glaucoma and needed to have eye exams every four months. She never used to have “bathroom problems,” but lately, she admitted, she’d started wearing a pad. She’d also had surgery for colon cancer and, by the way, now had a lung nodule that the radiology report said could be a metastasis—a biopsy was recommended.

Bludau asked her to tell him about her life. She said that she lived alone, except for her Yorkshire terrier, in a single-family house in the West Roxbury section of Boston. Her husband died of lung cancer twenty-three years ago. She did not drive. She had a son living in the area who did her shopping once a week and checked on her each day—“just to see if I’m still alive,” she joked. Another son and two daughters lived farther away, but they helped as well. Otherwise, she took care of herself quite capably. She did her own cooking and cleaning. She managed her medicines and her bills. “I have a system,” she said. She had a high-school education, and during the war she’d worked as a riveter at the Charlestown Navy Yard. She also worked for a time at the Jordan Marsh department store in downtown Boston. But that was a long time ago. She stuck to home now, with her yard and her terrier and her family when they visited.

The doctor asked her about her day in great detail. She usually woke around five or six o’clock, she said—she didn’t seem to need much sleep anymore. She would get out of bed as the back pain allowed, take a shower, and get dressed. Downstairs, she’d take her medicines, feed the dog, and eat breakfast. Bludau asked what she had for breakfast. Cereal and a banana. She hated bananas, she said, but she’d heard they were good for her potassium, so she was afraid to stop. After breakfast, she’d take her dog for a little walk in the yard. She did chores—laundry, cleaning, and the like. In the late morning, she took a break to watch “The Price Is Right.” At lunchtime, she had a sandwich and orange juice. If the weather was nice, she’d sit out in the yard afterward. She’d loved working in her garden, but she couldn’t do that anymore. The afternoons were slow. She might do some more chores. She might nap or talk on the phone. Eventually, she would make dinner—a salad and maybe a baked potato or a scrambled egg. At night, she watched the Red Sox or the Patriots or college basketball—she loved sports. She usually went to bed at about midnight.

Bludau asked her to sit on the examining table. As she struggled to climb up, her balance teetering on the step, the doctor held her arm. He checked her blood pressure, which was normal. He examined her eyes and ears and had her open her mouth. He listened to her heart and lungs briskly, through his stethoscope. He began to slow down only when he looked at her hands. The nails were neatly trimmed.

“Who cuts your nails?” he asked.

“I do,” Gavrilles replied.

I tried to think what could be accomplished in this visit. She was in good condition for her age, but she faced everything from advancing arthritis and incontinence to what might be metastatic colon cancer. It seemed to me that, with just a forty-minute visit, Bludau needed to triage by zeroing in on either the most potentially life-threatening problem (the possible metastasis) or the problem that bothered her the most (the back pain). But this was evidently not what he thought. He asked almost nothing about either issue. Instead, he spent much of the exam looking at her feet.

“Is that really necessary?” she asked, when he instructed her to take off her shoes and socks.

“Yes,” he said. After she’d left, he told me, “You must always examine the feet.” He described a bow-tied gentleman who seemed dapper and fit, until his feet revealed the truth: he couldn’t bend down to reach them, and they turned out not to have been cleaned in weeks, suggesting neglect and real danger.

Gavrilles had difficulty taking her shoes off, and, after watching her struggle a bit, Bludau leaned in to help. When he got her socks off, he took her feet in his hands, one at a time. He inspected them inch by inch—the soles, the toes, the web spaces. Then he helped her get her socks and shoes back on and gave her and her daughter his assessment.

She was doing impressively well, he said. She was mentally sharp and physically strong. The danger for her was losing what she had. The single most serious threat she faced was not the lung nodule or the back pain. It was falling. Each year, about three hundred and fifty thousand Americans fall and break a hip. Of those, forty per cent end up in a nursing home, and twenty per cent are never able to walk again. The three primary risk factors for falling are poor balance, taking more than four prescription medications, and muscle weakness. Elderly people without these risk factors have a twelve-per-cent chance of falling in a year. Those with all three risk factors have almost a hundred-per-cent chance. Jean Gavrilles had at least two. Her balance was poor. Though she didn’t need a walker, he had noticed her splay-footed gait as she came in. Her feet were swollen. The toenails were unclipped. There were sores between the toes. And the balls of her feet had thick, rounded calluses.

She was also on five medications. Each was undoubtedly useful, but, together, the usual side effects would include dizziness. In addition, one of the blood-pressure medications was a diuretic, and she seemed to drink few liquids, risking dehydration and a worsening of the dizziness. Her tongue was bone dry when Bludau examined it.

She did not have significant muscle weakness, and that was good. When she got out of her chair, he said, he noted that she had not used her arms to push herself up. She simply stood up—a sign of well-preserved muscle strength. From the details of the day she described, however, she did not seem to be eating nearly enough calories to maintain that strength. Bludau asked her whether her weight had changed recently. She admitted that she had lost about seven pounds in the previous six months.

The job of any doctor, Bludau later told me, is to support quality of life, by which he meant two things: as much freedom from the ravages of disease as possible, and the retention of enough function for active engagement in the world. Most doctors treat disease, and figure that the rest will take care of itself. And if it doesn’t—if a patient is becoming infirm and heading toward a nursing home—well, that isn’t really a medical problem, is it?

To a geriatrician, though, it is a medical problem. People can’t stop the aging of their bodies and minds, but there are ways to make it more manageable, and to avert at least some of the worst effects.So Bludau referred Gavrilles to a podiatrist, whom he wanted her to visit once every four weeks, for better care of her feet. He didn’t see medications that he could eliminate, but he switched her diuretic to a blood-pressure medicine that wouldn’t cause dehydration. He recommended that she eat a snack during the day, get all the low-calorie and low-cholesterol food out of the house, and see whether family or friends could join her for more meals. “Eating alone is not very stimulating,” he said. And he asked her to see him again in three months, so that he could make sure the plan was working.

Nine months later, I checked in with Gavrilles and her daughter. She turned eighty-six this past November. She is eating better, and has even gained a pound or two. She still lives comfortably and independently in her own home. And she has not had a single fall.

In the story of Jean Gavrilles and her geriatrician, there’s a lesson about frailty. Decline remains our fate; death will come. But, until that last backup system inside each of us fails, decline can occur in two ways. One is early and precipitately, with an old age of enfeeblement and dependence, sustained primarily by nursing homes and hospitals. The other way is more gradual, preserving, for as long as possible, your ability to control your own life.

Good medical care can influence which direction a person’s old age will take. Most of us in medicine, however, don’t know how to think about decline. We’re good at addressing specific, individual problems: colon cancer, high blood pressure, arthritic knees. Give us a disease, and we can do something about it. But give us an elderly woman with colon cancer, high blood pressure, arthritic knees, and various other ailments besides—an elderly woman at risk of losing the life she enjoys—and we are not sure what to do.

Several years ago, researchers in St. Paul, Minnesota, identified five hundred and sixty-eight men and women over the age of seventy who were living independently but were at high risk of becoming disabled because of chronic health problems, recent illness, or cognitive changes. With their permission, the researchers randomly assigned half of them to see a team of geriatric specialists. The others were asked to see their usual physician, who was notified of their high-risk status. Within eighteen months, ten per cent of the patients in both groups had died. But the patients who had seen a geriatrics team were a third less likely to become disabled and half as likely to develop depression. They were forty per cent less likely to require home health services.

Little of what the geriatricians had done was high-tech medicine: they didn’t do lung biopsies or back surgery or PET scans. Instead, they simplified medications. They saw that arthritis was controlled. They made sure toenails were trimmed and meals were square. They looked for worrisome signs of isolation and had a social worker check that the patient’s home was safe.

How do we reward this kind of work? Chad Boult, who was the lead investigator of the St. Paul study and a geriatrician at the University of Minnesota, can tell you. A few months after he published his study, demonstrating how much better people’s lives were with specialized geriatric care, the university closed the division of geriatrics.

“The university said that it simply could not sustain the financial losses,” Boult said from Baltimore, where he is now a professor at the Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health. On average, in Boult’s study, the geriatric services cost the hospital $1,350 more per person than the savings they produced, and Medicare, the insurer for the elderly, does not cover that cost. It’s a strange double standard. No one insists that a twenty-five-thousand-dollar pacemaker or a coronary-artery stent save money for insurers. It just has to maybe do people some good. Meanwhile, the twenty-plus members of the proven geriatrics team at the University of Minnesota had to find new jobs. Scores of medical centers across the country have shrunk or closed their geriatrics units. Several of Boult’s colleagues no longer advertise their geriatric training for fear that they’ll get too many elderly patients. “Economically, it has become too difficult,” Boult said.

But the finances are only a symptom of a deeper reality: people have not insisted on a change in priorities. We all like new medical gizmos and demand that policymakers make sure they are paid for. They feed our hope that the troubles of the body can be fixed for good. But geriatricians? Who clamors for geriatricians? What geriatricians do—bolster our resilience in old age, our capacity to weather what comes—is both difficult and unappealingly limited. It requires attention to the body and its alterations. It requires vigilance over nutrition, medications, and living situations. And it requires each of us to contemplate the course of our decline, in order to make the small changes that can reshape it. When the prevailing fantasy is that we can be ageless, the geriatrician’s uncomfortable demand is that we accept we are not.

For Felix Silverstone, understanding human aging has been the work of a lifetime. He was a national leader in geriatrics for five decades. But he is now himself eighty-seven years old. He can feel his own mind and body wearing down, and much of what he spent his career studying is no longer abstract to him.

Felix has been fortunate. He didn’t have to stop working, even after he suffered a heart attack in his sixties which cost him half his heart function; nor was he stopped by a near-cardiac arrest at the age of seventy-nine. “One evening, sitting at home, I suddenly became aware of palpitations,” he told me. “I was just reading, and a few minutes later I became short of breath. A little bit after that, I began to feel heavy in the chest. I took my pulse, and it was over two hundred.” He is the sort of person who, in the midst of chest pain, would take the opportunity to examine his own pulse. “My wife and I had a little discussion about whether or not to call an ambulance. We decided to call.”

When Felix got to the hospital, the doctors had to shock him to bring his heart back. He’d had ventricular fibrillation, and an automatic defibrillator had to be installed in his chest. Within a few weeks, though, he felt well again, and his doctor cleared him to return to work full time. He stayed in medical practice after the attack, multiple hernia repairs, gallbladder surgery, arthritis that ended his avid piano playing, compression fractures of his aging spine that stole three full inches of his once five-foot-seven-inch height, and hearing loss. “I switched to an electronic stethoscope,” he said. “They’re a nuisance, but they’re very good.”

Finally, at eighty-two, he had to retire. The problem wasn’t his health; it was that of his wife, Bella. They’d been married for more than sixty years. Felix had met Bella when he was an intern and she was a dietitian at Kings County Hospital, in Brooklyn. They brought up two sons in Flatbush. When the boys left home, Bella got her teaching certification and began working with children who had learning disabilities. In her seventies, however, retinal disease diminished her vision, and she had to stop working. A decade later, she became almost completely blind. Felix no longer felt safe leaving her at home alone, and in 2001 he gave up his practice. They moved to Orchard Cove, a retirement community in Canton, Massachusetts, outside Boston, where they could be closer to their sons.

“I didn’t think I would survive the change,” Felix said. He’d observed in his patients how difficult the transitions of age could be. Examining his last patient, packing up his home, he felt that he was about to die. “I was taking apart my life as well as the house,” he recalled. “It was terrible.”

We were sitting in a library off Orchard Cove’s main lobby. There was light streaming through a picture window, tasteful art on the walls, white-upholstered Federal-style armchairs. It was like a nice hotel, only with no one under seventy-five walking around. Felix and Bella have a two-bedroom apartment with forest views and plenty of space. In the living room, he has his grand piano and, at his desk, piles of medical journals that he still subscribes to—“for my soul,” he said. Theirs is an independent-living unit. It comes with housekeeping, linen changes, and dinner each evening. When they need to, they can upgrade to assisted living, which provides three prepared meals and up to an hour with a personal-care assistant each day.

This was not the average retirement community, but even in an average one rent runs thirty-two thousand dollars a year. Entry fees are typically sixty thousand to a hundred and twenty thousand dollars on top of that. Meanwhile, the median income of people eighty and older is only about fifteen thousand dollars. More than half of the elderly who live in long-term-care facilities go through their entire savings and have to go on Medicaid—welfare—in order to afford it. And, ultimately, the average American spends a year or more of his old age disabled and living in a nursing home (at twice the cost), which is a destination Felix desperately hopes to avoid.

He tries to note the changes he’s experiencing objectively, like a good geriatrician. He notices that his skin has dried out. His sense of smell has diminished. His night vision has become poor. He tires easily. He has begun to lose teeth. He takes measures where he can. He uses lotion to avoid skin cracks; he protects himself from the heat; he gets on an exercise bike three times a week; he sees a dentist twice a year.

He’s most concerned about the changes in his brain. “I can’t think as clearly as I used to,” he said. “I used to be able to read the Times in half an hour. Now it takes me an hour and a half.” Even then, he’s not sure that he has understood as much as he did before, and his memory gives him trouble. “If I go back and look at what I’ve read, I recognize that I went through it, but sometimes I don’t really remember it,” he said. “It’s a matter of short-term registration. It’s hard to get the signal in and have it stay put.”

He makes use of methods that he once taught his patients. “I try to deliberately focus on what I’m doing, rather than do it automatically,” he told me. “I haven’t lost the automaticity of action, but I can’t rely on it the way I used to. For example, I can’t think about something else and get dressed and be sure I’ve gotten all the way dressed.” He recognizes that the strategy doesn’t always work. He sometimes told me the same story twice in a conversation. The lines of thought in his mind would fall into well-worn grooves and, however hard he tried to put them onto a new path, sometimes they resisted. Felix’s knowledge as a geriatrician has forced him to recognize his own decline, but that hasn’t made it easier to accept.

“I get blue occasionally,” he said. “I think I have recurring episodes of depression. They are not enough to disable me, but they are . . .” He paused to find the right word. “They are uncomfortable.”

What buoys him, despite his limitations, is having a purpose. It’s the same purpose, he says, that sustained him in medicine: to be of service, in some way, to those around him. He had been in Orchard Cove for only a few months before he was helping to steer a committee to improve the health-care services there. He tried to form a journal-reading club for retired physicians. He even guided a young geriatrician through her first independent-research study—a survey of the residents’ attitudes toward Do Not Resuscitate orders.

More important is the responsibility that he feels for his children and grandchildren—and, most of all, for Bella. Her blindness and recent memory troubles have made her deeply dependent. Without him, I suspect, she would probably be in a nursing home. He helps her dress. He administers her medicines. He makes her breakfast and lunch. He takes her on walks and to doctors’ appointments. “She is my purpose now,” he said. Bella doesn’t always like his way of doing things. “We argue constantly—we’re at each other about a lot of things,” Felix said. “But we’re also very forgiving.”

He does not feel this responsibility to be a burden. With the narrowing of his own life, his ability to look after Bella has become his main source of self-worth. “I am exclusively her caregiver,” he said. “I am glad to be.” And this role has heightened his sense that he must be attentive to the changes in his own capabilities; he is no good to her if he isn’t honest with himself about what he can and can’t do.

One evening, Felix invited me to dinner. The formal dining hall was restaurant-like, with reserved seating, table service, and jackets required. I was wearing my white hospital coat and had to borrow a navy blazer from the maître d’. Felix, in a brown suit and a stone-colored oxford shirt, gave his arm to Bella, who wore a blue-flowered knee-length dress that he’d picked out for her, and guided her to the table. She was amiable and chatty and had youthful-seeming eyes. But, once she’d been seated, she couldn’t find the plate in front of her, let alone the menu. Felix ordered for her: wild-rice soup, an omelette, mashed potatoes, and mashed cauliflower. “No salt,” he instructed the waiter; she had high blood pressure. He ordered salmon and mashed potatoes for himself. I had the soup and a London broil.

When the food arrived, Felix told Bella where she could find the different items on her plate by the hands of a clock. He put a fork in her hand. Then he turned to his own meal.

Both made a point of chewing slowly. She was the first to choke. It was the omelette. Her eyes watered. She began to cough. Felix guided her water glass to her mouth. She took a drink and managed to get the omelette down.

“As you get older, the lordosis of your spine tips your head forward,” he said to me. “So when you look straight ahead it’s like looking up at the ceiling for anyone else. Try to swallow while looking up: you’ll choke once in a while. The problem is common in the elderly. Listen.” I realized that I could hear someone in the dining room choking on his food every minute or so. Felix turned to Bella. “You have to eat looking down, sweetie,” he said.

A couple of bites later, though, he himself was choking. It was the salmon. He began coughing. He turned red. Finally, he was able to cough up the bite. It took a minute for him to catch his breath. “Didn’t follow my own advice,” he said.

Felix Silverstone is, without question, up against the debilities of his years. Once, it would have been remarkable simply to have lived to see eighty-seven. Now what’s remarkable is that he has the control over his life that he does. When he started in geriatric practice, it was almost inconceivable that an eighty-seven-year-old with his history of health problems could live independently, care for his disabled wife, and continue to contribute to research. Even today, most people his age cannot live as he does.

Partly, he has been lucky. His memory, for example, has not deteriorated significantly. But he has also managed his old age well. His goal has been modest: to have as decent a life as medical knowledge and the limits of his body will allow. So he saved and did not retire early, and therefore is not in financial straits. He kept his social contacts, and avoided isolation. He monitored his bones and teeth and weight. And he has made sure to find a doctor who had the geriatric skills to help him hold on to an independent life.

I asked Chad Boult, the geriatrics professor now at Johns Hopkins, what can be done to insure that there are enough geriatricians for our country’s surging elderly population. “Nothing,” he said. “It’s too late.” Creating geriatricians takes years, and we already have far too few. This year, just three hundred doctors will complete geriatrics training, not nearly enough to replace the geriatricians going into retirement, let alone meet the needs of the next decade.

Yet Boult believes that we still have time for another strategy: he would direct geriatricians toward training all primary-care doctors in caring for the very old, instead of providing the care themselves. Even this is a tall order—ninety-seven per cent of medical students take no course in geriatrics, and the strategy requires that the nation pay geriatricians to teach rather than to provide patient care. But, if the will is there, Boult estimates that it would be possible to establish courses in every medical school and internal-medicine training program within a decade. “We’ve got to do something,” he said. “Life for older people can be better than it is today.”

Boult and his colleagues have yet another strategy, just in case—a strategy that they have called Guided Care, and that doesn’t depend on doctors at all. They’re recruiting local nurses for a highly compressed, three-week course in how to recognize specific problems in the elderly, such as depression, malnutrition, isolation, and danger of falling; how to formulate a plan to remedy those problems; and how to work with patients, families, and doctors to follow through on the plan. In a test of the strategy, the researchers are putting the nurses to work in primary-care practices around Baltimore and Washington, D.C., and studying the results. It is a meagre solution for a huge problem, but it is cheap, which insurers demand, and, if it provides even a fraction of the benefit geriatricians have, it could nudge medical care in the right direction.

“I can still drive, you know,” Felix Silverstone said to me. “I’m a very good driver.”

After our dinner together, he had to go on an errand to refill Bella’s prescriptions in Stoughton, a few miles away, and I asked if I could go along. He had a gold 1998 Toyota Camry with automatic transmission and thirty-nine thousand miles on the odometer. It was pristine, inside and out. He backed out of a narrow parking space and zipped out of the garage. His hands did not shake. Taking the streets of Canton at dusk on a new-moon night, he brought the car to an even stop at the red lights, signalled when he was supposed to, took turns without a hitch.

I was, I admit, braced for disaster. The risk of a fatal car crash with a driver who’s eighty-five or older is more than three times higher than it is with a driver between sixteen and twenty. The very old are the highest-risk drivers on the road. This past fall, in Los Angeles, George Weller was convicted of manslaughter after he confused the accelerator with the brake pedal and plowed his Buick into a crowd of shoppers at the Santa Monica Farmers’ Market. Ten people were killed, and more than sixty were injured. He was eighty-six.

But Felix showed no difficulties. At one point during our drive, poorly marked road construction at an intersection channelled our line of cars almost directly into oncoming traffic. Felix corrected course swiftly, pulling over into the proper lane. There is no saying how much longer he will be able to count on his driving ability. The day may well come when he will have to give up his keys.

At the moment, though, he wasn’t concerned; he was glad simply to be on the road. The evening traffic was thin as he turned onto Route 138. He brought the Camry to a tick over the forty-five-mile-per-hour speed limit. He had his window rolled down and his elbow on the sash. The air was clear and cool, and we listened to the sound of the wheels on the pavement.

“The night is lovely, isn’t it?” he said. ♦



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Sunday, April 22, 2007

a Writer's Life

The Amis Inheritance

Published: April 22, 2007

Ben Jonson wrote: “Greatness of name in the father oft-times helps not forth, but overwhelms the son; they stand too near one another. The shadow kills the growth.” This Oedipal principle applies to all sorts of professions, but few more so than the literary one. It’s not unheard of for the child of an author to try his hand at writing. Stephen King’s two sons are writers, and so is one of John Updike’s. Hilma Wolitzer’s daughter Meg is a novelist, as is Anita Desai’s daughter Kiran, whose second book just won the Booker Prize — an award that has so far eluded her mother. But writers’ offspring tend to go into the family business with far less regularity than, say, the children of doctors or lawyers, and it seldom happens that over the long haul, and in the deepening shade, the younger equals or outstrips the elder — the way that Anthony Trollope, to take a famous example, bested his mother, Fanny.

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Author, Author: Martin and Kingsley Amis in the late 1970s.

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Not-So-Angry Young Man: Kingsley and Hilary in the mid-1950s with, from left, Sally, Philip and Martin.

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Not-So-Angry Older Man: Kingsley and Elizabeth Jane Howard at their wedding reception in 1965.

The exception these days is the curious writerly firm of Amis & Amis, founded by Kingsley, who died in 1995, and now run by his son Martin. Kingsley Amis, an indelible figure in British letters, is the subject of an immense and sympathetic new biography by Zachary Leader (published this month in the United States) that has already caused a stir in England both by reminding readers of how funny Kingsley could be and because of its frankness about his personal life. (Leader is a friend of Martin’s, who encouraged him to write the book and put no restrictions on him.) Martin, meanwhile, who published his first novel when he was just 24, has recently brought out his 10th, “House of Meetings,” and at 57 is arguably writing better than Kingsley was at the same age. He is a more daring and inventive novelist than his father — unafraid in “London Fields,” for example, to wheel out the whole tool chest of postmodern tricks — and in books like “Money,” about a would-be filmmaker spiraling out of control on both sides of the Atlantic, nearly as funny but on a much bigger canvas.

Martin likes to say that he is of an age now when looking at himself in the mirror in the morning is like watching a low-budget horror movie with particularly lurid special effects. In fact, he has maintained most of the brooding good looks that were his trademark as a young man, though the “rug,” as Amis characters tend to call not a toupee but their own head of hair, is going a little thin on top. He wears black a lot and goes in for that dandified Brit touch of French cuffs without cufflinks. “I really do think I was blessed by Kingsley in that I really don’t get worked up or upset the way many of my contemporaries do,” he said over lunch a couple of months ago in New York, speaking in a slow, mid-Atlantic drawl in which the vowels are sometimes elongated for emphasis. “I never thought it was anything out of the way being a writer, but for them it’s been a struggle for legitimacy. It doesn’t astound me that I’m a writer, because what your dad does is banal by definition. It never seemed a big deal.”

In this country, Martin may in fact be a bigger deal than his father was, and Leader’s biography begins with an assertion that may strike American readers as extreme: “Kingsley Amis was not only the finest comic novelist of the second half of the 20th century but a dominant force in the writing of the age.” We know Kingsley mostly by his two best books, which happen to bracket his career: “Lucky Jim” (1954), one of the funniest novels ever written, and “The Old Devils” (1986), a late masterpiece about the indignities of old age. In England, though, his 23 other novels are more highly regarded than they are here, where some of his later books were championed by right-wing critics but denounced elsewhere for being reactionary and misogynistic. He was also a public personality who appeared often on TV, in the gossip columns and even in a series of advertisements for upscale fabrics (“Very Kingsley Amis, Very Sanderson”) that were the British equivalent of those ads Lillian Hellman used to do for Blackglama.

That Kingsley was an enthusiastic drinker and philanderer (someone who “lived for adultery,” his son says) was well known to most of his British readers, who watched with amusement or dismay as he turned himself over the years from a handsome young socialist into a monstrous caricature of an old buffer: fat, reactionary, alcoholic, rude and intolerant. He grew so devoted to the queen (who knighted him in 1990) that he had erotic dreams about her. They usually began, Martin says, with Sir Kingsley attempting to paw the royal chest and Her Majesty protesting: “No, no, Kingsley. We mustn’t.”

In England, Martin is a public figure in his own right, with a reputation so large that the press is always trying to whack him down. “Smarty Anus,” the magazine Private Eye used to call him. He has the kind of sexual glamour more often associated with movie stars than with novelists, and in restaurants young men sometimes pretend to know him just to impress their girlfriends. But Kingsley’s shadow is still so broad and long-lived that Martin is often damned for being too much like his father or else not enough. His 1991 novel, “Time’s Arrow,” for example, which rewinds time backward to tell the story of the Holocaust, was criticized in some quarters for being much too serious. “House of Meetings,” which is about two brothers in the Gulag and which the novelist and critic John Banville has called “a version of the great Russian novel done in miniature,” has generally been greeted as a return to form after Martin’s previous novel, “Yellow Dog,” which was energetically slammed. But some critics have complained that it, too, is overly serious and moralistic — not sufficiently Kingsley-like, in other words.

Since returning to London after two and a half years in Uruguay (his second wife, Isabel Fonseca, is half-Uruguayan and they built a house there), Martin has lately set about filling what one observer called a “Martin-sized” hole in English life. He has been visible everywhere, and both on TV and in a 12,000-word article in The Observer, he has been an outspoken critic of Islamism. He has also laid into British liberals for general anti-Semitism and for being too ready to criticize Israel’s invasion of Lebanon. To his critics on the left, all this is evidence that Martin is turning into Kingsley — another preachy old right-wing curmudgeon. And when it was announced in February that he had accepted a job teaching writing at the University of Manchester, that was also interpreted as following in the footsteps of the old man, who taught for years before his writing career took off.

None of these criticisms are entirely fair. Kingsley’s politics were all over the place and were never particularly well thought out. He was a knee-jerk liberal for a while, and then he became a knee-jerk reactionary. Martin’s politics are, if anything, naïvely earnest (one of the criticisms of his nonfiction book “Koba the Dread,” about Stalinism, was that it sometimes read as if the author thought it was news that Stalin was a murderer), but they are also the considered product of a lot of reading and discussion. His old friend Christopher Hitchens, who has not always agreed with Martin’s positions, says: “Once he gets seized on a topic, he’s got a bulldog grip. He’s like a lawyer getting on top of the case — he can give himself completely to a subject.”

Aside from publishing books that are mostly comic, moreover, Kingsley and Martin aren’t much alike as writers. Kingsley’s comedy stems from precise social observation. Martin’s characters tend to be caricatures and exaggerations, as their names suggest — Keith Talent, John Self, Guy Clinch, Clint Smoker — and he is more of a satirist and a moralist than his father was, with a vision of the world that is gloomy and scabrous. The shadow of nuclear annihilation hovers over “London Fields,” and “Yellow Dog” evokes a world run by thugs and pornographers. Father and son also used to disagree all the time about conspicuous literary style, or what Kingsley called “a high idiosyncratic noise level in the writing.” Martin recalled not long ago: “He was always saying, ‘I think you need more sentences like “He put down his drink, got up and left the room,” ’ and I thought you needed rather fewer of them.” A more typical Martin sentence tends to be maximalist and attention-grabbing, a riff with all the speakers turned up high, as in this “Augie March”-like streetscape from the beginning of “Money”:

I strode through the meat-eating genies of subway breath. I heard the ragged hoot of sirens, the whistles of two wheelers and skateboarders, pogoists, gocarters, windsurfers. I saw the barrelling cars and cabs, shoved on by the power of their horns. I felt all the contention, the democracy, all the italics, in the air. These are people determined to be themselves, whatever, little shame attending. Urged out from the line of shufflers and idlers, watchers, pavement men, a big blond screamer flailed at the kerb, denouncing all traffic. His hair was that special mad yellow, like an omelette, a rug omelette.

If Martin has a true literary father, in fact, it’s not Kingsley but Saul Bellow, to whom he became quite close in the mid-80s and whose leather jacket and down coat he now owns, as if literally inheriting the mantel.

Oddly, or perhaps not so oddly, where the two Amises most overlap is in their history with women. By all accounts, Kingsley, who in early photographs sometimes resembles a 1940s matinee idol, seldom met one who turned him down, and Martin for a while was the literary equivalent of a rock star. Before his first marriage, to Antonia Phillips, he was romantically involved with Claire Tomalin, Tina Brown, Emma Soames, Gully Wells, Julie Kavanagh, Victoria Rothschild and the model Angela Gorgas, among a great many others. “Everything fell before his scythe,” Hitchens told me recently. “I used to go with him to parties, and I felt I was just holding his coat.” He added that he knew of at least one instance in which father and son both slept with the same woman, though not at the same time, and that Kingsley, when he heard about it, said proudly, “Like father, like son.”

Martin said last winter: “I think most of my contemporaries had much more difficult relationships with their fathers than I did, because those fathers were very much against the generation that was emerging in the ’60s — free love, long hair, pacifism, drugs. I think there was a great deal of sexual envy masquerading as high principle. But my father never laid an obstacle in front of my brother and me on that front. The idea of promiscuity excited him. When my brother and I were about 14 or 15, he took us out and bought us a gross of condoms.”

Born in 1922, Kingsley grew up in Norbury, an unfashionable suburb of London, as the pampered, overprotected only child of a couple just barely clinging to the middle class. His father was a clerk at the Colman mustard company and the sort of Monty Python Englishman who thought it was droll to pretend to be deaf or foreign when in a pub or a train. His mother spoon-fed the young Kingsley until he was 12 or 13, and Leader suggests that all his life he remained in some ways a kind of overgrown infant, so greedy and avid for pleasure that as an adult he once announced, “I want more than my share before anyone else has had any.” From childhood on, Kingsley also suffered from claustrophobia and panic attacks. He never learned to drive and was afraid to fly or even to be alone at night. When Martin’s younger sister, Sally, was about to be born, Kingsley was afraid to go to the phone booth to call the midwife unless Martin, who was then 4, accompanied him.

That their father did not call upon Martin’s brother, Philip, then 5, is telling. Of the three Amis children, Martin enjoyed the easiest, most trusting relationship with his father. Philip, a graphic designer, had a far rockier time growing up, and Sally died of alcoholism at 46. Martin’s mother, Hilly, once said that he was “born under a lucky star.” Hitchens says that “Martin is a pretty good instance of birth order being a good protection” and adds that “a lot of Martin’s ruthless commitment to hard work is because both his siblings flaked out.”

Kingsley met Hilly Bardwell — or Hilary, to use her full name — in 1946, when she was a 17-year-old art student and he, six years older, had just returned to Oxford, which he was attending on a scholarship after a stint in the army. They had a memorable early date at a coffee shop where Hilly, who came from a prosperous family (it became the model, in fact, for the twittish, slightly preposterous Welch family in “Lucky Jim”) and had been brought up to think well of everyone, found herself in the company of a man muttering things like “Look at those fools, look at that idiot of a man.”

A year or so later, Hilly was pregnant, and after urging her to have an abortion, Kingsley got cold feet and instead they married. Philip, named for Kingsley’s best friend, the poet Philip Larkin, was born in August 1948, and Martin followed 375 days later. Soon after, the Amises moved to Swansea, in Wales, where Kingsley taught English at University College and embarked upon his career of epic promiscuity. In time, hurt and perhaps a little vengeful, Hilly began having affairs, too, and in many respects Leader’s account of the Amises’ Swansea begins to sound a lot like John Updike’s Tarbox, the setting for “Couples.” The wife of a local rugby fan sent him the team schedule, for example, so they could arrange assignations on game days, and the poet Al Alvarez, a weekend guest, remembered a Saturday-night party when Kingsley disappeared with each of the women there in turn, while everyone else sat around pretending not to notice. Though hardly in her husband’s league, Hilly fooled around sufficiently that when Sally was born in 1954, it was far from certain she was Kingsley’s daughter.

In 1958, the Amises spent the year at Princeton (or Budweiser College, as Kingsley calls it in his novel “One Fat Englishman,” where all American colleges are named after beer), and the partying, drinking and wife-swapping took on the properties of Cheever’s Shady Hill, with Kingsley making passes at every woman he saw and succeeding more often than not. “There was no scandal left in who had slept with Kingsley,” Betty Fussell writes in her memoir “My Kitchen Wars.” “Who hadn’t?”

All the while, however, Kingsley was steadily writing. Compared with Martin, he was a late bloomer. “Lucky Jim,” Kingsley’s first novel, came out when he was 31, after he had abandoned three efforts and had finished but failed to publish a fourth, which was rejected more than a dozen times. Leader demonstrates that in revising “Lucky Jim,” Kingsley was helped substantially by Philip Larkin, who advised him to “sod up the romantic business actively” — meaning make it more of a love story — and went through the manuscript line by line, writing comments like “This speech might come from a stage play TOO BAD to be produced” and “GRUESOME AROMA OF B” (“bum,” presumably). This is how Amis and Larkin always talked and wrote to each other — in language that was vulgar, sarcastic, typographically ingenious and often hilarious. Martin says he now believes that Larkin secretly hated Kingsley out of sexual envy, but their friendship, though complicated, was nevertheless a sustaining one for both writers, whose correspondence may be the most entertaining in all of English literature.

“Lucky Jim,” a novel about a lazy, angry, hangover-ridden lecturer at a provincial college, almost instantly became a best seller — perhaps another secret point of friction with Larkin — and introduced something new in English letters, a voice that was defiantly at odds with the snobbery and artiness of the Bloomsbury generation, and even with Evelyn Waugh’s kind of comedy, set among the Bright Young Things. For a while Kingsley was considered one of the original Angry Young Men.

“Lucky Jim” also loosed in Kingsley an almost unceasing flood of productivity — poems, essays and journalism, as well as novels. At the end of his life, when he was suffering the effects of a lifetime of hard drinking and possibly of early Alzheimer’s, he was unable to give up the habit of hours at the typewriter, even if it was just to type the word “seagulls” over and over.

In 1963, Kingsley shattered his family by running off with and eventually marrying the novelist Elizabeth Jane Howard, whom he had met at a literary conference. The children were devastated, and Hilly plunged into depression and pill-taking. Essentially left to fend for themselves, Martin and Philip skipped school, smoked a lot of dope and hung around coffee shops and Wimpy bars in flared velvet trousers and big-collared shirts while trying to pick up girls — until Jane, as she was called, determined they would be better off living not with their mother but with her and Kingsley. Philip never got along with his stepmother and finally left home when a box boldly labeled “PHIL’S DRUGS” was discovered in his dresser, not very carefully hidden. But for Martin, who had bounced from school to school and was at best an indifferent pupil, the new arrangement was a godsend. Jane took responsibility for his education, encouraged him to go to a crammer, or tutoring school, and urged him to apply to Oxford. He not only got in but studied so diligently that he graduated with a first in English.

In Martin’s memoir, “Experience,” there is a passage describing what seems to be a series of idyllic weekend visits to Lemmons, a large house Kingsley and Jane had bought on Hadley Common, outside London. There was always a barrel of whiskey on hand, he writes, along with a walk-in pantry stocked with food, and “with Kingsley the hub of all humour and high spirits, like an engine of comedy . . . I felt so secure in that house — and, clearly, so insecure elsewhere — that I always experienced a caress of apprehension as I climbed into the car on Sunday night.”

Martin says now of Kingsley in that period: “It was his zenith, but emotionally he was already shutting down” — meaning in part that the marriage had started to go bad. The relationship between Kingsley and Jane was based largely on sexual attraction, and by the mid-70s he had lost interest in sex or become unable to perform, or both. He was also drinking so heavily that an evening often ended with him crawling up the stairs on all fours. During the day, Kingsley was a fixture at the Garrick, a club in the West End, where he enjoyed afternoonlong lunches. According to Leader, his bar bill ran to more than 1,000 pounds a month.

In 1980, after Kingsley spurned her ultimatum that he quit drinking, Jane walked out. His father was “heartsick and romantically mortified” over the breakup, Martin says in “Experience,” and eventually he became bitter and misogynistic as well. The novels of this period, “Jake’s Thing” and “Stanley and the Women,” are filled with loathing and world-weariness. And this was also the period when what had partly been a put-on — the persona of the reactionary philistine — began to rigidify into something real and permanent. Kingsley became the very sort of person he used to make fun of, declaring, for example, that England’s best living writer was Dick Francis and that henceforth he wanted only to read books that began, “A shot rang out.”

Christopher Hitchens says he thinks that the process of self-ossification was pretty much complete by 1984. “I remember that Martin, Kingsley and I all had dinner, and then we went to see ‘Beverly Hills Cop,’ ” he said a few weeks ago. “Naturally, you couldn’t go to anything French or Japanese or Polish. All through the movie Kingsley was laughing with what we assumed was pretend mirth, and afterward he announced, ‘Yes, an absolutely flawless masterpiece.’ Suddenly it became clear he wasn’t joking and that he meant to defend the virtues of the film with absolute fidelity. It was a very striking moment — the sense that the face had grown to fit the mask and that the pose had become himself.”

When his marriage broke up, it was apparent that Kingsley was incapable of living by himself, and after a few weeks of what they called “Dadsitting,” Philip and Martin devised a scheme of the sort that only the British could dream up: they invited Hilly and her third husband, the impoverished Lord Kilmarnock, to come live with their father. From the outside, the arrangement looked like a ménage, but in fact Hilly and her husband, so broke that she had been selling hot dogs from a van next to a highway, were hired caretakers, and it amused Kingsley no end to be waited on by a peer of the realm. “We expected it to last about six months,” Martin said recently over dinner in London. “You kept saying to yourself, ‘It’s an odd arrangement, but then we’re odd people.’ ” In fact, the arrangement lasted 15 years, or until the end of Kingsley’s life, and it made possible “The Old Devils,” which won the Booker Prize in 1986.

Most of the burden of caring for Kingsley fell upon Hilly, who complained little and in fact emerges as the true heroine of Leader’s biography. “My mother had to suffer a very outrageous, childish set of demands,” Martin added. “But it gave her somewhere to live, and it gave him a great second lease. He would have died in his mid-60s without her.” He paused and then said: “ ‘The Old Devils’ is a great thawing, and it all came about through my mother really — her coming back into his life and reminding him of why he loved women. He valued her and all that, but he didn’t see that she was extraordinary, which she was.” He went on to say how tolerant and nonjudgmental his mother had always been and said: “I get as least as much from her as I ever got from him. I’m certain of that.”

Martin is remarkably tolerant and forgiving of the failings in his father, about whom he writes fondly in the pages of “Experience,” and his childhood and adolescence — a nightmare by most standards — he recalls as idyllic. Hitchens, who got to know both Amises when he was in his 20s and who delivered an affectionate eulogy at Kingsley’s funeral, says, “I never knew a father and grown-up son who got along more comfortably.” The novelist Ian McEwan, another old friend of Martin’s, said: “I’m not sure Kingsley was a great father, but Martin was a wonderful son. He has a fantastic degree of psychological resilience — it’s not a virtue, just a fact. Many of us would have wilted under Kingsley, but some quirk enabled Martin to flourish and to be entirely himself. I don’t know any other friends of mine who had that ease with their fathers, which is especially remarkable when you consider that Kingsley didn’t even like Martin’s books.”

Actually, he did like the first one, “The Rachel Papers,” which is a coming-of-age story, and even left Martin a note saying so. But he was unable to finish the second, “Dead Babies,” a dark, twisted country-house comedy that is in certain ways the most Kingsley-like of all Martin’s books. “He just couldn’t get on with it — he said this with an apologetic look,” Martin said. “He was unable to lie about it — I would have just lied.” He went on, mentally ticking off his books: “ ‘Success’ — he said the beginning and end worked but not the middle. He was quite scornful about ‘Other People.’ He read the first chapter of ‘Money’ ” — the novel many critics consider Martin’s best — “but then the minute a character named Martin Amis came in, he threw it across the room. He wasn’t having any of that. No buggering around with the reader.” (Curiously, Leader has discovered that a character named Kingsley Amis figures in an unpublished novel, and the same device turns up again in “The Green Man,” one of Kingsley’s better books.) “But the ‘Dead Babies’ moment was stunning,” Martin said. “It was stunning. Eventually it became of special interest to me what he thought, but not, I didn’t think, of special authority. He thought, really, that I was the best of a bad lot.”

In another conversation, Martin said: “I’m beginning to understand just what a dreadful curse it can be, the novelistic ego. And I think whatever complications being the son of Kingsley involved me in, that’s been a help. This curse, the way it works is that any praise you get is instantly assimilated, and it just brings you up to where you should have been already. But any criticism just jangles around in your head and makes you stay up at night. Kingsley says somewhere in his letters that nothing quite lays you open so much as a novel, and so for a lot of my friends, a lot of the time, their thoughts are almost poisoned by criticism.”

For Martin to suggest that he is immune may be a little disingenuous. Some of his friends say that he moved to Uruguay in part because he was so wounded by the unusually harsh reviews of “Yellow Dog.” Michiko Kakutani, writing in The New York Times, said it “bears as much relation to Mr. Amis’s best fiction as a bad karaoke singer does to Frank Sinatra.” In The London Telegraph, Tibor Fischer said it was “not-knowing-where-to-look bad” and like “your favourite uncle being caught in a school playground, masturbating.”

For years now, Martin has had a contentious relationship with British journalists, whom he likens to mullahs. “They whip up hysteria,” he explained. “Journalists are more powerful now than they’ve ever been, and we all know what power does. Anyone who disses the media is really asking for it. But it is the case that the journalists are what they are — world famous for vulgarity, alcoholism, spite.”

The onset of hostility on both sides probably dates from 1994, an annus horribilis in which Martin’s separation from his first wife and their two children became tabloid fodder. Then, to make things worse, he left his longtime agent, Pat Kavanagh, who happened to be the wife of his friend Julian Barnes, for the American agent Andrew Wylie, whom the British press promptly christened “the Jackal” — a nickname that has stuck ever since. (Barnes, who has since reconciled with Martin, didn’t speak to him for years.) Wylie succeeded in negotiating a $800,000 advance — a sum that was denounced as excessive — for Martin’s novel “The Information,” a book, as it happens, about the rivalry between two novelists who pretend to be friends, one popular and successful, the other arty and impoverished. What stirred up even more frenzy — an “Eisteddfod of hostility,” according to Martin — was the revelation that Martin intended to spend part of it getting his teeth fixed. To read some accounts from the time, it was as if he had decided he wanted to look like Liberace. (In fact, truly rotten dentition is a curious subtheme in Martin’s writing — there is a character in “Dead Babies” who can think of nothing but the poor state of his teeth — and “Experience” contains more accounts of excruciating dental surgery than many readers will have tolerance for.)

“It’s nothing rational — it’s love gone wrong,” Ian McEwan said of Martin’s relationship with the press. “A lot of young journalists are dazzled by Martin, his style, his success. They want to be him. And so what you have is a fever of covert parricide, a frantic, unexamined jealousy that is actually akin to longing.”

In New York a couple of months ago, Martin said, laughingly, of some of his critics: “How have I attached myself to these people who have spent hundreds of hours with me — who know my stuff better than I do — and all they can think to say is competitive, vitriolic stuff? Who are these ingrates?”

Martin is not a health nut these days but fit enough to play serious tennis and is even thinking about giving up cigarettes, which he hand-rolls from tobacco as black as coal. (Smoking is another vice Kingsley encouraged. Starting at age 5, Martin and Philip were each allowed to smoke a cigarette on Christmas Day; when they were 9, they got a whole pack.) For the time being, he is living in Bayswater with Isabel and their two young daughters, Fernanda and Clio, while a house he owns in Regent’s Park is still being let to tenants. He is a far more attentive father than Kingsley ever was and recently, while Isabel was away, plunged into the morning drill of getting the girls up and dressed and off to school — a routine that would surely have been beyond his father. (“I think Kingsley always admired me as a sort of operative in the field,” Martin told me once. “I could go on airplanes, drive a car, be in a house by myself — remarkable things like that.”) Martin is also very close to Louis and Jacob, his sons by his first marriage, now at college in England, and to Delilah Seale, a 30-year-old daughter he didn’t meet until 12 years ago. (Her mother was Lamorna Seale, with whom Martin had a brief affair and who later killed herself.)

A topic that comes up sometimes in conversation with Martin is where Kingsley went wrong, and Martin says he thinks it’s that with age he became a dogmatist of pessimism. “You have to distinguish between what is universal for your age group — that feeling that everything is going to hell, ubi sunt, and the rest — and what is reality,” he said last winter. “Kingsley never even tried to distinguish between that feeling in himself and how things really were. I try to test myself on that score because I believe that a writer has a solemn duty to be cheerful and to guard against the failures of tolerance which characterize age. Kingsley was an absolutist in that how he saw it was how it was. I’m very on guard against that. I don’t want it.”

He added: “I don’t want this to get out of control or I’ll be drowning in schmaltz, but it all starts to look very beautiful now that I know I’m not going to be around indefinitely. You know, the way that to a prisoner condemned to death, water tastes delicious, the air tastes sweet, a bread-and-butter sandwich makes tears spring to the eye.”

Charles McGrath, a former editor of the Book Review, is a writer at large for The New York Times.



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Wednesday, April 04, 2007

Power = Idiotic Behavior

Op-Ed Contributor

The Rich Are More Oblivious Than You and Me

Published: April 4, 2007

Old Lyme, Conn.

THE other day at a Los Angeles race track, a comedian named Eddie Griffin took a meeting with a concrete barrier and left a borrowed bright-red $1.5 million Ferrari Enzo looking like bad origami. Just to be clear, this was a different bright-red $1.5 million Ferrari Enzo from the one a Swedish businessman crumpled up and threw away last year on the Pacific Coast Highway. I mention this only because it’s easy to get confused by the vast and highly repetitious category “Rich and Famous People Acting Like Total Idiots.” Mr. Griffin walked away uninjured, and everybody offered wise counsel about how this wasn’t really such a bad day after all.

So what exactly constitutes a bad day in this rarefied little world? Did the casino owner Steve Wynn cross the mark when he put his elbow through a Picasso he was about to sell for $139 million? Did Mel (“I Own Malibu”) Gibson sense bad-day emanations when he started on a bigoted tirade while seated drunk in the back of a sheriff’s car? And if dumb stuff like this comes so easy to these people, how is it that they’re the ones with all the money?

Modern science has the answer, with a little help from the poet Hilaire Belloc.

Let’s begin with what I call the “Cookie Monster Experiment,” devised to test the hypothesis that power makes people stupid and insensitive — or, as the scientists at the University of California at Berkeley put it, “disinhibited.”

Researchers led by the psychologist Dacher Keltner took groups of three ordinary volunteers and randomly put one of them in charge. Each trio had a half-hour to work through a boring social survey. Then a researcher came in and left a plateful of precisely five cookies. Care to guess which volunteer typically grabbed an extra cookie? The volunteer who had randomly been assigned the power role was also more likely to eat it with his mouth open, spew crumbs on partners and get cookie detritus on his face and on the table.

It reminded the researchers of powerful people they had known in real life. One of them, for instance, had attended meetings with a magazine mogul who ate raw onions and slugged vodka from the bottle, but failed to share these amuse-bouches with his guests. Another had been through an oral exam for his doctorate at which one faculty member not only picked his ear wax, but held it up to dandle lovingly in the light.

As stupid behaviors go, none of this is in a class with slamming somebody else’s Ferrari into a concrete wall. But science advances by tiny steps.

The researchers went on to theorize that getting power causes people to focus so keenly on the potential rewards, like money, sex, public acclaim or an extra chocolate-chip cookie — not necessarily in that order, or frankly, any order at all, but preferably all at once — that they become oblivious to the people around them.

Indeed, the people around them may abet this process, since they are often subordinates intent on keeping the boss happy. So for the boss, it starts to look like a world in which the traffic lights are always green (and damn the pedestrians). Professor Keltner and his fellow researchers describe it as an instance of “approach/inhibition theory” in action: As power increases, it fires up the behavioral approach system and shuts down behavioral inhibition.

And thus the Fast Forward Personality is born and put on the path to the concrete barrier.

The corollary is that as the rich and powerful increasingly focus on potential rewards, powerless types notice the likely costs and become more inhibited. I happen to know the feeling because I once had my own Los Angeles Ferrari experience. It was a bright-red F355 Spider (and with a mere $150,000 sticker price, not exactly top shelf), which I rented for a television documentary about rich people. It came with a $10,000 deductible, and the first time I drove it into a Bel-Air estate, the low-slung front end hit the apron of the driveway with a horrible grating sound that caused my soul to shrink. I proceeded up the driveway at five miles an hour, and everyone in sight turned away thinking, “Rental.”

The bottom line: Without power, people tend to play it safe. Given power, even you and I would soon end up living large and acting like idiots. So pity the rich — and protect yourself. This is where Hilaire Belloc comes in.

He once wrote a poem about a Lord Finchley, who “tried to mend the Electric Light/Himself. It struck him dead: And serve him right!” Belloc wasn’t tiresomely suggesting that the gentry all deserve a first-hand acquaintance with the third rail, as it were, but merely that they would be smart to depend on hired help. In social psychology terms, disinhibited Fast Forward types need ordinary cautious mortals to remind them that the traffic lights do in fact occasionally turn yellow or even, sometimes, red.

So, Eddie Griffin: next time you borrow a pal’s car, borrow his driver, too. The world will be a safer place for the rest of us.

Richard Conniff is the author of “The Natural History of the Rich.”



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Monday, April 02, 2007

Baseball - the sexiest game!


Why Baseball Is the Sexiest Game
By Elizabeth Bales Frank

Baseball is as sexy as a spectator sport gets. Let me tell you right off the bat (as it were) what I don't mean by that. I don't mean anything having to do with groupies, so you can forget about Bull Durham and its only-in-Hollywood Whitman-spouting, financially carefree heroine. And you can forget any one player's private stupidities, covered so excessively by the media. In fact, forget about the players altogether, at least as far as their relative sexiness in the world of regular men goes. The players are only as sexy as the sport they're in. Tom Seaver was Tom Terrific, sure, once upon a time, but now he's just a guy in a crewneck with a 1969 haircut, sitting in an armchair pitching Oldsmobiles on television.

No, when I say sexy, I mean the nature of the intimacy between the game and its fans, between those who make baseball and those for whom baseball is made, which is all of us. Look at it this way: Football is a game, basketball is a sport, but baseball is a state of mind.

Baseball is the only game that invites you in as it unfolds at its own pace, not predetermined but dependent—like romance—on the mood, condition, energy, and skill of the two sides in question. Every romance has at core its peculiar myth: "We have a lot of fun" or "The two of us are really hot together" or "We're friends at the bottom of it all." So does every baseball team that makes itself a legend: the team is a stormy rotation of power and clean-up, for example, or a harmonious squad of speed and stealth. Will you ever forget your first love? Will you ever completely forsake the first team that grabbed a piece of you and wouldn't let go?

Baseball courts you. The action hovers coyly, flicking glances at you (still watching me up there?), and then everything explodes into some wholly unanticipated activity that just delights you, that takes your breath away. Football, basketball, hockey, on the other hand—they scamper along within regulation lines, guided by a regulation clock, with contact limited by heavy protective gear, with penalties imposed for all kinds of nasty personal fouls.

This is not how friends behave.

I've heard men say that when they think of sex and sports, they think of football. Huh? On whose behalf were you thinking, dear? Perhaps these guys were distracted by the image of the homecoming queen bonding with the glamorous quarterback. This is not sexy. This is a couple archetype. Ron and Nancy Reagan were a couple archetype. Were they sexy?

Football is about as seductive as a stag party. Football, in fact, is a stag party—a group of macho guys behaving like louts, destroying property, trying to do maximum damage to and impress the hell out of one another, and then bringing on the dancing girls when they want to take a rest.

Baseball on the other hand, is for adults. In other sports, you can get all your buddies to beat on all the other guys' buddies on your behalf, but in baseball, when you stand out there on the field, even though you're with your team, you're standing out there all alone. This makes the players partly independent, partly vulnerable; part of the community, yet loners at heart—kind of like Gary Cooper in High Noon.

Yes, well. Other sports provide continuous action (all the way down the field, hey!) but, along with it, a mob mentality. Where is the finesse in watching eighteen men fighting the clock and each other for possession of some oversized misshapen piece of leather? In baseball, the player cups the ball in one hand, and it fits perfectly. Think about that.

You see faces in baseball. You learn to recognize the code in a player's smile, in a pitcher's sigh on the mound, in a catcher's rueful shake of the head. You learn the trademarks, the quirks. He's favoring that knee. Better pull him. Can't you see that? What are you looking at? It's a game of thought, of pauses, of strategy, of a whole series of odd, intimate gestures that signal volumes of meaning between coach and player.

When I first began telling men that I wrote about baseball, I would receive a "heh-heh" kind of nervous reply, which puzzled me until one rattled soul pulled me aside to explain that, well, it was kind of an encroachment, wasn't it, to hear a girl talk about baseball, something he's always shared with his dad, something that's always been male. And now here comes a woman possibly looking at the players as sexual objects. I'm only glad I didn't grow up in his neighborhood, which sounds like a frightening, primitive place.

No wonder this guy is still single. Doesn't he realize that "avid baseball fan" is the best thing a woman could say about herself in a personal ad? Doesn't he understand the goodwill and physical well-being this phrase connotes? Does anyone really consider it feminine for a woman to profess (or truly stand behind) a disinterest in sports?

Listen. A woman who finds baseball boring is probably not very good in bed. She cannot tolerate tension or suspense. She lacks imagination and flexibility, and she lacks the wherewithal to fill her own empty spaces. A woman who does not like baseball is a woman who drains men with her monotonous penny-for-your-thoughts demands for constant entertainment. A woman who can't understand the fierce dance of wills between a champion base thief shuffling off first, teasing the mettle of a pitcher who has never thrown him out, who will abruptly pivot and fire and just miss . . . well, such a woman will never understand the first thing about seduction or about the pleasures of a real, grown-up flirtation.

And watch out for the woman who says, Sure, she likes baseball some, but not the really slow games where nothing happens (an Action Annie). No, she only likes the high-scoring games with lots of home runs, and she really only watches at World Series parties. Stay home! Life is not all high-scoring games, sweetheart; life, in fact, is mostly batting practice. A woman who cannot maintain her enthusiasm through a 1–1 extra-inning game that goes on into the middle of the night in an April sleet cannot be counted on to stand by a man's side through the long years ahead. A woman who would buy an extra scorecard in this situation, on the other hand, is the same woman who will, decades from now, turn and smile at her husband's gray temples in the bottom of the eighth during an afternoon game and gesture to deep center: "Look, dear, how the shadows spread across the field!"

All right, here it comes. Baseball and sex have much in common. Rhythm and timing are integral to both. Both, in their most sublime manifestation, unfold very slowly and explode into moments of ecstasy that are gone so fast there is nothing to do but marvel at them (or go to the instant replay). The difference—in both baseball and sex—between the good and the great is a difference of nuance, dedication, and a click that can't be summoned but then echoes in the air like divine applause over the pure of heart. Both can have season schedules lasting just long enough for us to begin to take them for granted. But in both cases, we would be advised to learn to appreciate. The Dodgers left Brooklyn, after all.

With baseball, as with romance, you get out of it what you put into it, unless you happen to be blessed with an exceptional team that takes care of everything. But that's usually not the case. Baseball is like love too—at least love as defined by the Supremes: It can't be hurried, don't come easy, and most of the time, you just got to wait. It's a game of give and take.

—EFQ

ELIZABETH BALES FRANK, a third generation Cardinals fan, is a novelist who lives in New York City.



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